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Selective racism...

So...being the fabulous, wonderful sister/person/woman/...let's just say overall human being that I am...I offered to come down when Jen is closer to delivery and help out or provide emotional support. :-) Since she has no one (my brother doesn't count) I need to be that someone.

Here's the thing...when Jen married my brother her parents disowned her. Why you ask? Simply because my brother isn't white. Now...I find this to be very confusing...because Jen is Korean, and she was adopted by a Vietnamese woman and a white man. Uh...right. So my brother and I are half black and half Korean...so...hmm...what I don't understand is selective racism.

I understand racism...I understand thinking you are better than ALL other races...but to be selective about which race? I don't fully understand that. Perhaps it is color of skin? I'm not sure...but the thing is...if you are going to be a bigot...at least have the common decency and courtesy to exude that intolerance to ALL races and not just some.

Ok...obviously I'm being snarky...overall I think it is stupid to disown someone over something so insignificant. What kind of parental love is that if you can't be happy for your own child...the way I see it...as a parent you love your child...you support them...and in some instances you simply accept their choices or decisions.

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natalie516
Mar. 21st, 2007 07:46 pm (UTC)
:-)

I actually wrote a journal entry on this a few years ago...

See here: http://natalie516.livejournal.com/257509.html

My mom was born in Korea...she didn't move to the US until she was 19...I guess it never mattered to her.

archer823
Mar. 22nd, 2007 07:01 pm (UTC)
That's still an interesting situation, I wonder how much her age of immigration / why she left Korea / how much of a native Korean speaking population she interacted with when she moved here.

Growing up in an area of NYC where most of the signs aren't even in English, my growing up was completely different from someone who is Korean but was raised in another part of the country.
natalie516
Mar. 22nd, 2007 07:46 pm (UTC)
hehe...my mom is a pretty interesting woman. She has 7 brothers and sisters and she is the 3rd oldest...so she definitely helped raise them. It is really weird...she doesn't know her real birthday because the child that was born before her died, so they gave her his birthday :-/ What kind of bullshit is that?

I am not sure if there were too many native Korean speakers in Seattle in 1964...Seattle was pretty much a backwater town back then.

Right now, I know that her story is like 2 blocks from the "Korean District" and I know she spends a lot of time there.

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