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Weird off the wall question...

How do you ask a person if they are gay without being rude?

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cozmo
Oct. 10th, 2002 02:20 pm (UTC)
haha, reminds me of a boss I had a couple years ago.. he heard me complaining about my female rommate alot and stuff and apparently thought i was gay. It was pretty funny. He's like "ok, just wanted to make sure you're batting for the right team" lol

cozmo
Oct. 10th, 2002 02:22 pm (UTC)
ask him if he wants to go shoe shopping with you ;)
haha. i actually have no idea of a good way to do that.
natalie516
Oct. 10th, 2002 03:13 pm (UTC)
Unfortunately...that proves nothing! LOL...I have a guy friend who likes going shoe shopping with me...and he has a girlfriend, maybe he just likes me? lol...
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natalie516
Oct. 10th, 2002 03:13 pm (UTC)
ROFLMAO I have no idea what that is...
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natalie516
Oct. 10th, 2002 03:21 pm (UTC)
LOL...now is this a failproof way?
xiaoshira
Oct. 10th, 2002 07:56 pm (UTC)
Me! Me! I know this one!

Well, no, I don't, but this worked for me once. Wait for the right moment in a conversation, and say "You know, [so and so] asked me if you were gay, and I was about to say no, but then I realized that I'd never considered that possibility and I didn't want to tell him/her before I actually asked you."

Another way is to be like "Hey, that guy really thinks you're cute." You usually have to have gay friends for this to work, but the answer you get will usually provide some clue :).
murg
Oct. 10th, 2002 11:56 pm (UTC)
*LOL* Youre just plain evil! Evil!! :)

Im gay, and well, people dont normally ask! Im pretty carefree so Ive had people just outright say "Youre gay, right?"... oh yeah, and also in the juice bar a girl behind the counter guys "Ahem... um, what are you up to friday night? My friend over there was wondering, and hes hoping you bat for the other team." which was really cute of her. I have a boyfriend though so I had to politely turn her (and him!) down.
natalie516
Oct. 11th, 2002 11:08 am (UTC)
Re:
Well I don't want to just ask him straight out because I am interested in him!
xiaoshira
Oct. 11th, 2002 06:33 pm (UTC)
If you're interested in him, even better... just kind of let him know slowly that you're interested in him without coming on too strong. If you eventually have to point blank ask him something, don't let it be "are you gay?", make it something like "could you ever be interested in me?" I mean, the guy will be flattered, even if he is gay, right?
murg
Oct. 11th, 2002 10:15 pm (UTC)
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OH!

Hmmm that IS a dilemma, isnt it... I dunno, if I were asked out by a girl, I dont think Id laff at her! Id prolly grin like an idiot though.

When all else fails... stalk them! :D
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